Spanish pronouns le / les become se when used with lo, la, los, las (indirect with direct pronouns)

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When there is an indirect pronoun in a sentence we use: me, te, le, nos, os, les. However when the indirect pronouns le and les (meaning to him / to her / to them) are accompanied by the direct pronoun lo, la, los or las (meaning it / them) then le and les become se to avoid a clumsy sounding le lo, le la, les los etc, which is tricky to pronounce. Listen to this example:

Laura se lo compró.Laura bought it for her.
Remember that no matter how many different pronouns are used in the sentence, the indirect one comes first and the direct one comes after.

Listen to these examples:

No se lo dije.I didn't say it to her.

selo a ella.Give it to her.

Se la dimos.We gave it to them.

Quiero comprárselos.I want to buy them for them.

María está comprándoselos.María is buying them for him.

No sabemos por qué se los ofrecieron.We don't know why they offered them to them.

Note that se and the direct object pronoun have a different position depending on the verbal structure.

With a conjugated verb, se and the direct object pronoun are separate from the verb and in front.

Se la dimos.

With an infinitive, imperative or present participlese and the direct object pronoun can be either at the end of the verbal structure and attached to the infinitive, imperative or the present participle forming a longer word:

Quiero comprárselos. (infinitive)

Cómpraselos. (imperative)

Estoy comprándoselos. (present participle)

or se and the direct object pronoun can be placed in front of the whole verbal structure, but never between the conjugated verb and the present participle or infinitive. Here are some examples to show the two possibilities, equally correct and same meaning:

No se lo puedo apretar.I cannot tighten it for her.

No puedo apretárselo.I cannot tighten it for her.

Estamos decorándosela.We are decorating it for him.

Se la estamos decorando.We are decorating it for him.

Here are some more examples:

Las zapatillas, pónselas al lado de la cama.The slippers, put them next to the bed for her.

No se los pagues, él tiene bastante dinero.Don't pay for those for him, he has enough money.

¿Por qué no se lo comunicaste antes?Why didn't you let them know about it before?

Se lo daré cuando la vea.I will give it to her when I see her.

El regalo, yo se lo dejé ahí.The present, I left it there for him.

¿Crees que se lo habrá dicho ya?Do you think she will have told him yet?

Pregúntaselo ahora mismo. Ask her about it right now.

Estoy montándoselas en el salón.I am putting them up for him in the living room.


See also:
Using lo, la, los, las = him, her, it, them (direct object pronouns)

Using le and les = [to] it,him, her, them (indirect object pronouns)  

Position of Spanish direct and indirect object pronouns with infinitive/present participle and affirmative commands 

 

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Quiero comprárselos.I want to buy them for them.
El regalo, yo se lo dejé ahí.The present, I left it there for him.
Se la dimos.We gave it to them.
No sabemos por qué se los ofrecieron.We don't know why they offered them to them.
¿Por qué no se lo comunicaste antes?Why didn't you let them know about it before?
No se lo dije.I didn't say it to her.
Se la estamos decorando.We are decorating it for him.
María está comprándoselos.María is buying them for him.
No se lo puedo apretar.I cannot tighten it for her.
Laura se lo compró.Laura bought it for her.
No puedo apretárselo.I cannot tighten it for her.
Estamos decorándosela.We are decorating it for him.
Las zapatillas, pónselas al lado de la cama.The slippers, put them next to the bed for her.
No se los pagues, él tiene bastante dinero.Don't pay for those for him, he has enough money.
selo a ella.Give it to her.
Se lo daré cuando la vea.I will give it to her when I see her.
Pregúntaselo ahora mismo. Ask her about it right now.
Estoy montándoselas en el salón.I am putting them up for him in the living room.
¿Crees que se lo habrá dicho ya?Do you think she will have told him yet?
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