Using ser (not estar) to describe relationships

When we want to talk about relationships, such as family ties, friendship or romantic relationships, we use the verb ser (not estar).

For example:

María es mi madre.
María is my mother.

Él es mi hermano.
He is my brother.

In the examples above, we use ser to talk about family ties.

Laura es su amiga.
Laura is his friend.

Ramón y Marcos son mis amigos.
Ramón and Marcos are my friends.

As you can see above, we use ser to talk about friendships.

Marta es mi novia.
Marta is my girlfriend.

Daniel es tu marido.
Daniel is your husband.

In the examples above, we use ser to talk about romantic relationships.

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Examples and resources

Daniel es tu marido.
Daniel is your husband.


Marta es mi novia.
Marta is my girlfriend.


Ramón y Marcos son mis amigos.
Ramón and Marcos are my friends.


Él es mi hermano.
He is my brother.


Laura es su amiga.
Laura is his friend.


María es mi madre.
María is my mother.


Q&A Forum 1 question, 1 answer

The lesson doesn't go into much depth on vosotros & sois.

Asked 1 month ago
InmaKwiziq language super star

Hola Mitch,

As it is a lesson about a specific use of "ser", we haven't used all pronouns in the examples. We tend to use the most natural sentences. This is not the case in conjugation lessons though, where we make sure all pronouns are used as it is important to see the whole conjugation.

Saludos, 

Inma

The lesson doesn't go into much depth on vosotros & sois.

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